Jealousy is a normal emotion in which every person in this world experiences. Girls get jealous about a lot of things because they can be possessive and territorial creatures. No matter how much you trust someone, you can still get jealous, especially if you care and love that person. For most girls, jealousy is not a negative thing but rather a way of saying “I’m afraid to lose you.”
Moreover, this urges them to do some sketchy and weird things that they are not aware of because they are essentially powerless to stop themselves. If you want to know what those things are, here are fifteen things girls do when they are jealous.
Girls are actually good at hiding their emotions and guys usually don’t have any idea why they act like that. Usually, whenever a girl is in the midst of jealousy, you will get unbelievable answers to your simple questions.
Suddenly changing mood
You’ll see how a girl mood immediately shifts when you try to flirt or talk to another girl. Girls are naturally moody but you’ll know when they are jealous if they start acting strange.
Asking a friend to stalk
It would be safe if she asks a friend to stalk you, so you won’t have any idea that she’s keeping an eye on you. Most of the girls do this when they want to find out who are you hanging out with and who do you talk every day.
Another sign that she is jealous of is when she ignores you. Girls are playing hard to get when they are jealous. They won’t talk to you, not unless you do a lot of effort to please them.
Trying to flirt with other men
If she finds out that you don’t notice her, she will make a way to get your attention. You’ll know that she is jealous when she starts flirting with other guys because she wants to see if you care and get jealous as well.
Mentioning other guys in front of him
Mentioning other guys in front of you is no doubt a sign of jealousy. If girls are jealous, they also want you to feel jealous and want to see how you will react if they mention different guys in front of you.
Pretending to be too busy
Sometimes, when girls are jealous they pretend to be busy because they do not want to be ignored. When both of you are out with friends and you keep on talking to another girl, there are some instances that she would get her phone and pretend to be busy browsing her social media accounts.
Laughing out loud even though there’s nothing funny about
There is no doubt that girls are good at hiding their emotions. She would just laugh at things no matter how stupid she looks like just to put out of sight her jealousy.
Who would want to let other girls stick around her boyfriend? Well, girls are territorial and would not want any other girls to wander around their boyfriend and that is why they start acting so clingy.
Creating a dummy account
Girls get paranoid sometimes and would make a way just to stalk her boyfriends’ social media accounts. Creating a dummy account will also help her stay on track with the girl she is jealous about and is the best way as well to keep an enemy closer to her.
Posting hot selfies
When girls are jealous, they get a sudden urge to post a lot of hot selfies. Probably, wearing a tiny outfit at the gym or posting their pictures on Instagram wearing two-piece on the poolside and see how their boyfriend would react to all those guys hitting “Like”
Making negative comments about the other girl
Of course, as someone who is jealous about the other girl he usually hangs out with, she’s not going to say positive things about her. No matter how untrue it is, she would still dig up dirt on the target. She would casually mention to his boyfriend that the girl had a lot of boyfriends or flunked out of college.
Checking his phone like a detective
Girls have a detective side as well. So when they get jealous or think that you are dating someone else because you’re staying late at night outside. She won’t think twice to check your phone if you have another girl and even if it has a password. It’s not as hard as you think to watch someone type in their passcode.
Faking an illness
There is nothing like becoming desperately ill just to pull him away from anything and anyone else. He probably has a party to attend but she doesn’t want you to attend because there are a lot of girls out there. And she would rather fake an illness, so you have someone to take care of.
There are girls who use sarcastic phrases when they talk to you, especially if they are jealous of something. She might probably roll her eyes followed by a slight grin or might laugh loudly.
Of course, not all girls entertain jealousy in their hearts or minds. Besides, guys can also be jealous and even do weirder things than girls do when they feel that. In other words, jealousy is felt by everyone, especially those who love too much and are afraid to lose the ones they love.
Jealousy, in its mild state, can be harmless to a relationship – some girls or boys even want to see their partners get jealous to feel that they are loved. However, too much jealousy can be dangerous and destructive to a relationship, and even to people’s lives. Thus, it is something that we need to control.
Jealousy should only be a mild ingredient to your relationship to make it sweet and colorful. So the next time the green-eyed monster visit you, don’t entertain it too much.
The more you entertain it, the more you do weird stuff. And for the boys or guys out there, if you love your girlfriend or wife, you will not make her feel jealous and sad in the first place, right? 🙂 🙂